August 13, 2012

Notes for Beth Moore LPL Event


LPL Knoxville Notes 2012

Verses for the weekend:
2 Corinthians 6: 1-18, 2 Corinthians 7:1-4, 9-10
1As God’s co-workers we urge you not to receive God’s grace in vain. 2 For he says,
“In the time of my favor I heard you, and in the day of salvation I helped you.”
I tell you, now is the time of God’s favor, now is the day of salvation.

Paul’s Hardships

3 We put no stumbling block in anyone’s path, so that our ministry will not be discredited. 4 Rather, as servants of God we commend ourselves in every way: in great endurance; in troubles, hardships and distresses; 5 in beatings, imprisonments and riots; in hard work, sleepless nights and hunger; 6 in purity, understanding, patience and kindness; in the Holy Spirit and in sincere love; 7 in truthful speech and in the power of God; with weapons of righteousness in the right hand and in the left; 8 through glory and dishonor, bad report and good report; genuine, yet regarded as impostors; 9 known, yet regarded as unknown; dying, and yet we live on; beaten, and yet not killed; 10 sorrowful, yet always rejoicing; poor, yet making many rich; having nothing, and yet possessing everything.
11 We have spoken freely to you, Corinthians, and opened wide our hearts to you. 12 We are not withholding our affection from you, but you are withholding yours from us. 13 As a fair exchange—I speak as to my children —open wide your hearts also.

Warning Against Idolatry

14 Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? 15 What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? Or what does a believer have in common with an unbeliever? 16 What agreement is there between the temple of God and idols? For we are the temple of the living God. As God has said:
“I will live with them and walk among them, and I will be their God, and they will be my people.”
17 Therefore, “Come out from them and be separate, says the Lord. Touch no unclean thing, and I will receive you.”
18 And, “I will be a Father to you, and you will be my sons and daughters,  says the Lord Almighty.”
7 Therefore, since we have these promises, dear friends, let us purify ourselves from everything that contaminates body and spirit, perfecting holiness out of reverence for God.
Paul’s Joy Over the Church’s Repentance
2 Make room for us in your hearts. We have wronged no one, we have corrupted no one, we have exploited no one. 3 I do not say this to condemn you; I have said before that you have such a place in our hearts that we would live or die with you. 4 I have spoken to you with great frankness; I take great pride in you. I am greatly encouraged; in all our troubles my joy knows no bounds.
9 yet now I am happy, not because you were made sorry, but because your sorrow led you to repentance. For you became sorrowful as God intended and so were not harmed in any way by us. 10 Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death.

Notes
2 Cor 6:2 – “Now is the time of God’s favor.  Now is the day of salvation”.  A reference to now being what was prophesized in the past. 
Isaiah 49:8-9

Restoration of Israel

8 This is what the Lord says:
In the time of my favor I will answer you,
and in the day of salvation I will help you
;
I will keep you and will make you
to be a covenant for the people,
to restore the land
and to reassign its desolate inheritances,
9 to say to the captives, ‘Come out,’
and to those in darkness, ‘Be free
The present (following Christ’s death and as Christians today) is the day of favor & time of salvation they have been waiting for, eagerly anticipating.  God is making himself accessible to us. 
Mark 1:14-15

Jesus Announces the Good News

14 After John was put in prison, Jesus went into Galilee, proclaiming the good news of God. 15 The time has come,” he said. “The kingdom of God has come near. Repent and believe the good news!”

As with many prophesies, there is a sooner fulfillment and a later ultimate fulfillment.
2 Cor 6:3 – “We put no stumbling block in anyone’s path, so that our ministry will not be discredited”
Key word for us as Christians:  CREDIBLE.  We have to be credible to advance the Gospel and fulfill our unique missions.
Credible, from the root word “cred” meaning to believe.
Lesson for the session, using the word CREDIBLE:
C-Credibility is believability that can only be earned
R- Reconciling adversity and divine favor is true mystery disclosed
E- Every single antithetical inch is spaced by grace
D- Dying to self feels most like a killing when the unloved love
I -Interlocking lives is double strength or double trouble
B- Bondage at is deadly best is trading repentance for regret
L- Living together and dying together (in reverse order…die, then live) in heart is fellowship at it s finest
E- Everything is nothing without Jesus
“C” – Credibility is believability that can only be earned.  Credibility is earned the hard way.  It can’t be bought, married into, faked, etc.  When our lives demonstrate we can do what would otherwise be impossible.
“The Gospel can’t be spread if we ain’t got no cred.”
We must be humble servants of God.  Competent to give evidence worthy of belief.
From 2 Cor 6:4-10:
But as servants of God, we commend ourselves in every way, by great endurance in
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All of our “great endurance” blanks are different, but we all have them.  And we should want them.  We want to get to heaven before Jesus having overcome our great endurances.
They differ by person, but there are three basic categories:
·         Circumstantial
·         Other people
·         Price it takes in discipline for what we are called to do (hard work in discipline for our unique callings)
We have to be willing to pay the price to do what we are called to do.  By way of self-discipline to be credible to do our calling with the seal of God’s approval.
Memos – Greek word for discredit.  Greek god of ridicule and mockery.  Mockery is one of Satan’s big attacks.  Satan likes to make us think we are a fool, gullible.  We will forsake our faith faster over ridicule than any other form of persecution.
“R” – Reconciling adversity and divine favor is true mystery disclosed
“E” – Every single antithetical inch is spaced by grace
                Difficult circumstance ß------------------(God’s grace)--------------------à  Our attitude

From 2 Cor 6: 4-10:

                Dying                                                                                                                    Live on
                Sorrowful                                                                                                      Always rejoicing
                Poor                                                                                                            Making many rich
                Having nothing                                                                                      Possessing everything

“D” – Dying to self feels most like a killing when the unloved love
2 Cor 6: 11-12 “We have spoken freely to you, Corinthians, and opened wide our hearts to you. 12 We are not withholding our affection from you, but you are withholding yours from us”
Unreturned affection.  Ask God for understanding where we may be withholding words or love where you shouldn’t be.
Matthew 24:12-13 in reference to the end times:
Because of the increase of wickedness, the love of most will grow cold, 13 but the one who stands firm to the end will be saved.
I” – Interlocking lives is double strength or double trouble
2 Cor 6:14-16 “Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? 15 What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? Or what does a believer have in common with an unbeliever? 16 What agreement is there between the temple of God and idols?”
It isn’t saying to not have any association.  It is saying do not be “yoked”.  Yoked is a more intimate relationship…a partnership.  It is fellowship in fellowship’s true definition:
                Fellowship > friendship
                Fellowship > kinship
                Fellowship = co-ownership
Don’t be unequally yoked in marriage or partnerships.
Love and obsession are not the same things.  If there is jealously, then something is off.  Be careful of instant intimacy – no such thing – must build over time, you should wait and see.  In ministry, partnerships, etc.
2 Cor 7:1 “Therefore, since we have these promises, dear friends, let us purify ourselves from everything that contaminates body and spirit, perfecting holiness out of reverence for God.”
Watch out for what we put in our minds and bodies.  What we watch, listen to, are around, associate with, etc.  It isn’t okay.  Carnality profoundly undercuts credibility.
Isaiah 52:11:
Depart, depart, go out from there!
Touch no unclean thing!
Come out from it and be pure,
you who carry the articles of the Lord’s house.

“B” – Bondage at its deadly best is trading repentance for regret
2 Cor 7:9-10 “yet now I am happy, not because you were made sorry, but because your sorrow led you to repentance. For you became sorrowful as God intended and so were not harmed in any way by us. 10 Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death.”
Repentance = own it, desire to turn from it and walk away from it.  It doesn’t leave you in it.  It is freedom.
Regret = just relive foolishness and stay in it through bondage. 
Regret by itself is worldy grief.
When you feel that regret/reliving happen even though you know you have been forgiven, instead replace it with thanksgiving to God for the gift of repentance and for forgiveness and cleansing (instead of wallowing in regret).
“L” - Living together and dying together (in reverse order) in heart is fellowship at its finest.
We tend to say “live and die” in that order, but it is actually dying that comes before living.  Paul uses a lot of metaphors of death and resurrection in his writings.  We must die (to self, to the world, etc) before we can live.  That is where true fellowship lives.
“E” – Everything is nothing without Jesus
2 Cor 6:3b “…having nothing, and yet possessing everything.

In our society, most of us can not relate to having nothing, even if we grew up without a lot.  We can think we don’t know what it is like to truly have nothing.  But this isn’t true, because everything is nothing without Jesus.

Rev 3:17

You say, ‘I am rich; I have acquired wealth and do not need a thing.’ But you do not realize that you are wretched, pitiful, poor, blind and naked.

August 8, 2012

A little science / spa fun

Fun with friends making a "spa concoction" / science experiment consisting of water, coke, g2, hand soap, leaves, lotion, dish soap, salt, pepper, skittles and who knows what else.

August 6, 2012

Swimming & Running

We got the kids signed up for a great swim/stroke class on Thursdays at 1:00pm at Episcopal school's pool. The kids are pretty good swimmers, but have never had formal stroke lessons.  It will be fun to watch them develop their skills and see how they like it as a sport.

We also checked out the YMCA outdoor track to use as our homeschool running club.  Our plan is to go two to three times a week to run/walk 2-3 miles.  We'll probably bring the kids bikes to ride afterwards.  It will especially be nice when the weather gets better in the Fall.

August 3, 2012

Week 1 Lesson Plans Done

So I'm feeling a little less overwhelmed now that I have put together our lesson plans for the first week of school.  I'm thinking we will start on Monday, August 20th...this is when their old school goes back.  We have a lot packed in and I'm sure we'll adjust as we go along, but it is nice to have a starting point.


August 1, 2012

University of Florida Visit

I got to relive my time at UF with the kids this week.  My friend's son was in the UF baseball camp and we joined her in Gainesville for the day.  We started off with lunch at the Swamp then proceeded to walk around campus in the 120 degree (or very close to it) weather.  We saw my old dorm, the accounting school I spent many hours, the library I always went to, the union and bookstore/gift shop, my old sorority house (ans where I lived my last year), the baseball, football, swimming, basketball facilities.  I think we wore the kids out with all the walking in the heat, but it was so fun being back there.  Go Gators!

July 31, 2012

We are crazy about the Olympics!

We are loving the Olympics being on!  When Ruthie was over, the kids made up a new Olympic sport...pillow skating.  Gold all around!


July 27, 2012

BIble study

We had the first session of our Thursday night ladies bible study last night.  I am so grateful to be part of such an amazing group of women.  Such diversity in age, life experience, current circumstances and walks with God.  Makes for incredible discussion.

July 25, 2012

Sewing lessons

Granny had Maddie and Ruthie over for sewing lessons.  They both made an adorable skirt.  Maddie has well surpassed me in her sewing knowledge (she had me at the first stitch).  So fun to get to do this with Granny.  For a special treat, the girls got to spend the night there afterwards.

July 24, 2012

Homeschool Books

We got the last of our homeschool books in today.  I am feeling one part excited and one part overwhelmed!

July 23, 2012

Love her attitude!

Maddie:  "I think I am glad I got Diabetes.  I  mean it is not what I want and it is hard, but I think it will bring me closer to God."

Love yer!

July 21, 2012

Baseball!

Fun night with the Norton's watching the Suns for Jimmy Buffet night!


After the baseball game, a Jimmy Buffet cover band rolled onto the field for a concert...

July 18, 2012

Zoocademy

We signed the kids up for their first official homeschool programs.  Zoocademy at the Jacksonville Zoo.  This unique experience for Home School students is a six-month series of programs covering a range of topics in Biology, Zoology, Environmental Science and Conservation. Classes meet for three hours, once a month from September through February.  Students in each age group will experience hands-on, engaging activities, including up-close animal encounters with our Animal Ambassadors and tours within the Zoo.

Jake and Maddie will be in separate classes.  Here are the topics they will each get to learn about:


July 17, 2012

Surf Camp

Maddie is doing surf camp this week with two of her friends, Emily M and Emily B.  They love it!  Jake is tagging along playing in the ocean and making sand castles with Maggie (Emily B's sister).  Both kids are exhausted when they get home.  I just found them both in their beds asleep at 3:00.








July 14, 2012

General Homeschool Plan

I’m thinking the general schedule would look something like this and then we will insert in any programs / activities as they are scheduled (e.g. Zoo/MOSH/Cummer homeschool programs) and co-op trips/activities (with Christ’s Church big group).  The things in red are things they would be doing with other kids.  Additional info/thoughts are below the calendar.


Monday
Tuesday
Wednesday
Thursday
Friday
9:00 a
School work
School work
School work
School work
School work / Field Trip
10:00 a

Co-op
day
11:00 a
12:00 p
Lunch
Lunch
Lunch
Lunch
1:00 p
Track / PE
Play outside
Track / PE (maybe PE group/class)
Play outside
2:00 p
Read / Creative (and finish any school work)
Read / Creative (and finish any school work)

Mission
Day
Read / Creative (and finish any school work)
Read / Creative (and finish any school work)
3:00 p
Free time
Free time
Free time

4:00 p

Library / fun activity / errands
Maddie dance (4:15-5:15)

Cooking
Day
(plan, shop, cook)
Maddie guitar (date/time TBD)
5:00 p
Maddie Dance
(5-7)
Jake soccer
(5:30-7)

Jake soccer
(5:30-7)
6:00 p
Jake activity (TBD)
Wed night church
(5:15-6)
7:00 p
Dinner
Dinner
Dinner
Dinner
Dinner


School Curriculum:  We’ll start by 9am each morning going through the school curriculum.  I’m thinking our first year we will go with A Beka which is a curriculum that private schools and homeschool groups use.  I can get a whole kit for each grade that has the parent and teacher workbooks.  It is laid out for a 180 day school year with detailed plans for each day.  They would get to do a wide variety of subjects (not just reading and math like they do now)…Reading, writing, spelling, math, Bible, science/health/manners, history, geography.  When the weather is nice we can go do our school work at the beach or at a park one day during the week (and invite some friends to join us).

Reading Time:  We’ll spend at least 45 minutes each day reading.  Some will be on our own and some will be me reading to Jake.  This is in addition to the reading curriculum we will be going through.

Co-Ops:  We could be part of Mel’s co-op the first year while we get the hang of things.  They meet every Tuesday and do scheduled programs together (e.g. science unit, history unit, etc) as well as field trips.  We could decide to move to a different co-op for the next school year if we want something different.  We’ll also be part of the general MandarinChristian (Christ’s Church) homeschool group.  Their co-op has 200 kids and is closed for this year, but we can be part of their general homeschool group that has various activities, programs, field trips we can be part of this year. 

Homeschool Programs:  There are a lot of dedicated homeschool programs we can participate in such as:
·         Zoo – the zoo has a once a month program aboutanimals for homeschoolers
·         MOSH – once a month they have a science program just for homeschoolers
·         Art/Cummer – there are art programs and activities at the Cummer
·         PE – there are lots of different PE groups and sports programs for homeschool
·         Theater – there are different improve classes for homeschool
·         Plus lots more:  art, music, cooking, languages, etc. – here is just one listing of some of them and here is another

Field Trips:  We could do field trips with Mel’s co-op and the Christ’s Church co-op.  They go a variety of places…some just for fun, and some with educational programs built around them.

Mission days:  We’ll have mission days once a week or every other week.  We can volunteer with various organizations or pick one that we go to every time.  I’m thinking we can help assemble or distribute grocery bags or something like that.  Once we meet more families, we can even do some of the mission days with them or they may already be some established groups that go.

Cooking Days:  One day a week we’ll have the kids go through a recipe book and pick something to make (we could even look into some kids cooking classes).  We’ll go to the store and they can pick out all the ingredients and make dinner.  Maybe we could eventually have a garden and we can use items from our garden…maybe something like this.




We're Homeschooling!

I am so excited that we will be homeschooling next year.  It is something I have been thinking about for a long time, but never thought I would be able to do it (for a variety of reasons).  During the last 6 months to a year I have really been thinking more and more about and praying about it a lot.  I got to the point that I was sold on it, but Sam really wasn't sure about it.  We have finally gotten to a place where we are in agreement to go for it.  I am so excited about all that we will learn and get to do...hands on learning and a less hectic schedule, which will allow for us to do more extracurricular activities.  Here are some excerpts from various studies I put together to help Sam feel more comfortable with it:


Homeschool Trends & Reasons

Across the county, an estimated 1.5 million children are home schooled and that number's growing. In the span of eight years, home schooling has grown nationally by almost 75 percent.

In 2007, the most common reason parents gave as the most important was a desire to provide religious or moral instruction (36 percent of students). This reason was followed by a concern about the school environment (such as safety, drugs, or negative peer pressure) (21 percent), dissatisfaction with academic instruction (17 percent), and "other reasons" including family time, finances, travel, and distance (14 percent). Parents of about 7 percent of homeschooled students cited the desire to provide their child with a nontraditional approach to education as the most important reason for homeschooling, and the parents of another 6 percent of students cited a child's health problems or special needs.

Home schooling, once dismissed as a fringe activity practiced by head-in-the-sand reactionaries and off-the-grid hippies, is now widely considered an integral part of the mainstream education system. Growing more common every year, the practice has gained attention due to home-schooled students sweeping up scholastic and athletic honors at national competitions and high-profile politicians opting to teach their own children at home (Lyman, 2007).

Some think that boys’ energetic natures and tendency to physical expression can more easily be accommodated in home-based education.

There is much evidence via multiple studies that shows the benefits of homeschooling across many dimensions and there is no empirical evidence that homeschooling causes negative things compared to institutional schooling.

Excerpts from various studies and articles…

Standardized Tests
·         Studies showed homeschoolers typically academically outperformed children receiving a public education on standardized tests by approximately 30 to 35 percentile points in all subject areas.
·         Drawing data for the 2007-2008 school year from multiple standardized testing services, the national average percentile scores were higher in all subject areas by at least 34 percentile points, and as high as 39 percentile points.
·         Homeschooled kids score above the national average on college admissions tests.
·         Mean scores on every subtest on standardized academic achievement far surpass those scores of publicly schooled students.
·         The mean of subtest scores were at least in the 80th percentile for homeschooled students.
·         Homeschool students tend to score above the national percentile on standardized achievement tests such as the Iowa Test of Basic Skills.
·         Homeschoolers are scoring higher on SATs and ACTs than non-homeschooled students.

College

·         Homeschool students go to college and to fine colleges in disproportionately high numbers.
·         children from home education programs had higher first semester, first year, and last year grade point averages than their peers
·         Colleges are starting to actively recruit homeschoolers.

Socialization
Studies have shown that home-educated children are more mature and better socialized than are those sent to school.

Recent research is changing opinions about how well-socialized homeschooled children are. While there is a common misconception that homeschooled children may be more poorly socialized than their publicly educated peers, this may not be the case. In a meta analysis of 24 studies about homeschoolers and socialization, Dr. Susan McDowell concluded socialization was a "non-issue."

Another often-cited study is a survey conducted by Dr. Gary Knowles, a University of Michigan Assistant Professor of Education. For the study, Dr. Knowles surveyed more than 50 adults who had been homeschooled as children. In the study, Knowles found that more than 75 percent felt homeschooling had helped them learn to interact with others as an adult.

In 2000, Dr. Patricia Lines of the Discovery Institute studied the socialization of homeschooled children. She found that homeschoolers were well-adjusted, and experts were unable to distinguish homeschooled kids from children receiving a public education. In fact, homeschooled children also demonstrated fewer behavioral issues than their public school peers.

Additional studies have shown that homeschooled children participate in many activities outside of the home, which allows them positive interaction with not only their peers, but a variety of age groups.

·         The home-educated are doing well, typically above average, on measures of social, emotional, and psychological development. Research measures include peer interaction, self-concept, leadership skills, family cohesion, participation in community service, and self-esteem.
·         Homeschool students are regularly engaged in social and educational activities outside their homes and with people other than their nuclear-family members. They are commonly involved in activities such as field trips, scouting, 4-H, political drives, church ministry, sports teams, and community volunteer work
As the "socially challenged" homeschool kids are out and about interacting in real life situations, the government students are "socializing" under a controlled environment, behind four walls with a controlled group of people (also known as their peer group).
People like to assume that if a child attends a traditional school, he or she will automatically have awesome social skills and never be lonely/an outcast/"weird"/anti-social, etc, but I think we all know that's not really the case. Are there socially challenged homeschoolers? Of course there are. But for everyone one of them you should me, I can find you at LEAST one traditionally-schooled child who is equally socially challenged (and probably more than one, simply because there are more kids in traditional schools than in homeschools). Homeschooling doesn't magically result in lack of socialization any more that traditional school magically results in great social skills
I don't think we're isolating our kids,” Jennifer said. “We're giving them a very strong foundation so that when they go out in the world they're able to be a strong model in the face of negative influences rather than being influenced by those negative things.”

Other
Homeschool students have shown themselves to be more creative.

As Adults
The research based on adults who were home educated is growing; thus far it indicates that they:
·         participate in local community service more frequently than does the general population,
·         vote and attend public meetings more frequently than the general population, and
·         go to and succeed at college at an equal or higher rate than the general population.
·         Internalize the values and beliefs of their parents at a very high rate.

Another study found that 94% of homeschoolers keep the faith and 93% continue to attend church after the high school years. But a shocking 75% to 85% of Christian children sent to public school drop out of church, and do not hold a Christian worldview after high school graduation.

Transitioning Back to School
Most home-schooled children who switch to regular school do so successfully, he said, fitting in academically as well as socially. The key to a smooth transition, he said, is preparation.

July 12, 2012

Summer Fun

Jake's buddy, Cal, came over to play.  The backyard heat got to them so they came in for a little game of Battleship.  We are loving our summer so far!

July 11, 2012

Guitar Lessons

Maddie had her first guitar lesson on Tuesday.  She loved it and can't wait until she is able to play some songs for us.  She was up early this morning to practice. 

July 7, 2012

Happy Birthday, Maddie!

Happy birthday to my strong, brave, funny, smart, compassionate, sweet 10 year-old...who is also excellent at Uno according to Jake!

Ahhhh....vacation

Just what we needed....a nice family vacation to Sea World and Aquatica.  We got to celebrate the 4th of July (although we were so tired from the day that we couldn't even stay up for the fireworks) and Maddie's birthday there. It was very hot, but very fun.